💍 Silver Anniversary

25 Years of "Where Do You Want to Eat?"

They've never once decided efficiently. They've also never spent a night apart.
Priorities.

Dan & Lisa Johnson — Silver Anniversary
2001 NB NB Z z z 2009 47 throw pillows (only 5 shown)

Every night at 9 PM. Without fail. For 9,125 nights.

How It All Began

The Origin Story

A love story told in three acts of endearing clumsiness.

Chapter One

The Cafeteria Catastrophe

It was 2001. Dan Johnson, a 27-year-old engineering student with more confidence than coordination, spotted Lisa Davis across the college cafeteria. She was reading Pride and Prejudice, completely absorbed, wonderfully oblivious to everything around her.

Dan decided this was his moment. He'd walk by, casually glance her way, maybe say something witty. A flawless plan.

He tripped over a chair. His entire tray -- meatloaf, mashed potatoes, an orange juice with commitment issues and a loose lid -- launched forward in what witnesses describe as "a beautiful arc" and landed squarely on Lisa's book.

There was a pause. The cafeteria went quiet. Mashed potatoes dripped from page 147.

Dan, still on the ground, looked up and said: "So... come here often?"

"You owe me a new copy of Pride and Prejudice." -- Lisa's first words to her future husband
Chapter Two

"You Owe Me a Book"

Dan showed up the next day with a brand-new copy of Pride and Prejudice. And a coffee. And an apology that went on for about four minutes too long.

Lisa accepted the book. Then the coffee. Then, somehow, a dinner invitation -- though she maintains to this day that she only said yes because "the mashed potatoes ruined a really good chapter and he owed me a meal too."

Their first date was at a diner three blocks from campus. Dan wore his best flannel. Lisa brought the replacement book in case the date was bad and she needed an escape plan.

She never opened it.

That book -- mashed potato stains and all -- is still on their shelf. Unread since page 147.
Chapter Three

The Second Trip

Three years later, Dan decided to propose. He'd bring Lisa back to the same cafeteria. He'd planned a speech. He'd practiced in the mirror. He'd even bought new shoes so he wouldn't trip this time.

He tripped anyway.

Different chair. Same result. Down he went, ring box flying out of his pocket, skidding across the floor to Lisa's feet.

She picked up the ring, looked at Dan sprawled on the floor -- again -- and said:

"Yes. But we're getting you better shoes."

Reader: she did not get him better shoes. He's been wearing white New Balance ever since. The universe has a sense of humor.

The Journey

25 Years of Highlights

A timeline of triumphs, disasters, and a dog who outranks everyone.

Year 1
Minimalist Living (Involuntary)

First apartment. No furniture for three months. They ate dinner on camping chairs and called it "minimalist living." Dan insisted it was intentional. Lisa kept the receipts that proved it wasn't.

Year 5
Jake Arrives

Their first child is born. Dan cries more than the baby. Lisa photographs this. She still has the photo. Dan knows she still has the photo. This is her leverage.

Year 8
Emma Arrives

Their second child. Dan has stopped crying. He's just permanently tired now. The camping chairs are long gone, but the energy levels are about the same.

Year 10
The Real MVP: Baxter

A golden retriever enters the family and immediately assumes the top position in the household hierarchy. Gets his own Christmas stocking. Eats better than Jake will in college. The children have accepted their place.

Year 15
The Bathroom Renovation Disaster

Dan's grand anniversary surprise: a renovated bathroom. The plumbing failed spectacularly. The kitchen flooded. Water damage estimate: significant. Lisa laughed so hard she cried. Dan maintains it was "structurally ambitious." The contractor still won't return his calls.

Year 20
The Failed First Date Redux

They tried to recreate their first date. Dan squeezed into his college jacket (didn't fit). Lisa brought the same book (different edition). They drove to the restaurant, sat in the car for "just a minute," and fell asleep before making it inside. Woke up at midnight. Went home. Best anniversary yet.

Year 25
Still Here. Still Arguing. Still Choosing Each Other.

Still can't pick a restaurant. Still fighting over the thermostat. Still covering each other with blankets at 9 PM. The nice shirt from 2009 still makes appearances. Baxter is still the favorite. Some things don't change. The best things don't.

25 Years, Zero Resolutions

The Great Debates

Ongoing arguments they've never resolved. Not once. Not ever. They wouldn't have it any other way.

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The Thermostat War

Dan wants 72 degrees Fahrenheit. Lisa wants 68. The thermostat has been set to 68 for 25 years. Dan "adjusts" it when Lisa isn't looking. Lisa sets it back within 30 seconds. She has a sixth sense. She always knows.

Score: Lisa 9,125 — Dan 0
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The Toilet Seat Accord

The eternal battle. Twenty-five years of silent warfare conducted entirely through the medium of a hinged plastic seat. Dan forgets. Lisa reminds. The cycle continues. There is no peace, only an uneasy armistice.

Score: Lisa 9,125 — Dan 0
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The Speed Limit Debate

Dan drives 5 under the speed limit. Proudly. Defensively. As a matter of principle. Lisa drives 5 over. As a matter of sanity. The compromise? They take separate cars. Marriage is about knowing when to surrender.

Compromise achieved: separate vehicles
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The Throw Pillow Question

Lisa owns 47 throw pillows. Dan is allowed to sit on 3 of them. The other 44 are "decorative." Dan once moved one. The Look was deployed. He has not moved a pillow since 2014.

Dan's allocated cushions: 3 of 47
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The Friday Restaurant Question

"Where do you want to eat?" "I don't care, you pick." "No, YOU pick." This conversation has occurred 9,125 Fridays in a row. Not a single one has been resolved efficiently. They always end up at the same diner. Always.

Efficient decisions: 0 out of 9,125
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The Dishwasher Protocol

Dan loads the dishwasher. Lisa rearranges everything Dan loaded into the dishwasher. Dan asks why she doesn't just load it herself. Lisa says he needs to "learn." He has been learning for 25 years. The curriculum has no end.

Dan's passing grade: pending (25 yrs)
Performance Review

Marriage Survival Skills

A comprehensive assessment after 25 years of fieldwork.

Communication 45/100

"They finish each other's... arguments. Not sentences. Arguments."

Restaurant Selection 2/100

"25 years. 9,125 Fridays. Zero efficient decisions. The 2 points are because they always get there eventually."

Home Repair (Dan) 20/100

"Every fix creates two new problems. The bathroom renovation of Year 15 remains the defining case study."

Finding Lost Items (Lisa) 99/100

"Milk in the fridge? Found. The remote? Done. Your will to argue? Already located. She loses one point because even she can't find Dan's car keys when he leaves them in his jacket from 2009."

Blanket Coverage 100/100

"9,125 consecutive nights. Never missed. Not when she was tired, not when she was mad, not when he left his shoes in the hallway again. Every. Single. Night."

Love 100/100

"They'd do it all again. The tripping. The flooding. The throw pillows. The 9,125 unresolved restaurant debates. All of it. Without hesitation."

What They're Saying

Words from the Inner Circle

Family, friends, and household objects weigh in on 25 years of the Johnson marriage.

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They argue about EVERYTHING but they've never spent a night apart. It's honestly goals. I used to think they were weird. Now I realize that's just what love looks like when it stops trying to be Instagram and starts being real.

👦
Jake Johnson Son, 22 — Outranked by the dog since 2011
"

Mom finds my keys in 10 seconds. Dad can't find the milk when it's literally in front of him in the fridge. Right there. Eye level. Together they average out to one functional human. I love them so much it's stupid.

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Emma Johnson Daughter, 19 — Keeper of The Look tradition
"

I have my own Christmas stocking. I eat better than Jake did in college. I sleep on the couch between my humans every night while they argue about the thermostat. I am the real winner of this marriage. *tail wag*

🐶
Baxter Dog — Undisputed Favorite Child
"

I have held this family together for 12 years. Literally. Through movie nights, arguments, blanket ceremonies, and Baxter's shedding. I have absorbed approximately 4,380 dad jokes. I deserve a medal. Or at least a reupholstering.

🛋
The Couch Living Room — 12 Years of Faithful Service
"

I am set to 68. I have always been set to 68. I will always be set to 68. Dan touches me approximately 3.7 times per day. I am reset within 30 seconds every time. Lisa's reflexes are remarkable. I have accepted my fate.

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The Thermostat Hallway Wall — Forever 68°F
By the Numbers

25 Years, Quantified

Because love deserves data.

0 Years Married Silver anniversary
0 "Where Should We Eat?" Conversations Zero resolved efficiently
0 Throw Pillows Dan may sit on 3
0 "Nice Shirt" Since 2009. Still going strong.
0 Nights Apart Not one. Ever.
0 Couch Cushions (Dan's Allocation) Out of 47 total pillows
0 Avg. Dad Jokes per Dinner 63,875 lifetime total (estimated)
0 Blankets Placed One every night. Never missed.
25

Twenty-five years of tripping, arguing, fixing (badly), finding (instantly), and loving (always).

Here's to 25 more. You two are proof that love isn't about perfection —

it's about choosing the same person to annoy for the rest of your life.

Happy Silver Anniversary, Dan & Lisa.

Now go argue about where to have dinner.

🍴 The Great Restaurant Debate 🍴

Dan

Lisa

This conversation has occurred 9,125 times.

They always end up at the same diner. Always.